Meet Every Cowgirl’s Favourite Sex Position

Yeehaw, lovers! To celebrate Valentine's Day this year, we're delving into a cowgirl’s favourite sex position: on top. Saddle up, because we're going to get wild. Whether you're a seasoned stallion or a bashful bronco, we're here to make sure you feel confident to take the reins in the bedroom and get your riding technique as smooth as a sunset gallop. We're going to break down the ultimate top tips for staying on the saddle - from cowgirl, to reverse, and everything in between.

Find your rhythm 

Just like in the rodeo, the cowgirl sex position is all about timing. After you hop on top, take it slow, feel the movement, and let the energy flow between you and your partner. Think less 'mechanical bull at a dodgy dive bar' and more 'sensual sway under the stars.' You're not racing horses here, so there's no need to rush. Find a rhythm that works for both of you and let yourself melt into it. You might find that taking turns leading helps keep your stamina up, so make sure you take breaks as it's easier to lose your rhythm when you're an exhausted cowgirl.

Engage that core

If you're a pilates or yoga lover, you'll know the importance of keeping your core engaged. A little core strength goes a long way to keep things steady and controlled. Plus, make sure you keep a firm grip (no pun intended) e.g. hands on chest and gripping your thighs closer together makes all the difference when you're aiming for a ride to remember.

Switch up the tempo

Slow and steady wins the race with this sex position… until you really want to kick it into high gear. Think of your tempo like a good ol' fashioned country song, some parts are for swaying and some parts are for stomping those boots. Try teasing with a few longer drawn out movements before throwing in a little extra bounce.

Don't be afraid to take the reins

One of the things that makes the cowgirl position a top favourite amongst CIS men is the power play dynamic that it gives the rider. This is your moment to take charge, and the more you let yourself loose the more your partner will love it. Hands on hips, playful hair flips, you could even bring a cowboy hat into it for extra flair. The main takeaway is - own it! Confidence is the ultimate turn-on. The cowgirl position can feel extra vulnerable as you might feel like more of your body is on show, but the more you can get out of your own head and see how sexy you look from the ridee's position, the more your confidence will exude and make for a better ride.

Make eye contact

Nothing says "I got this" like a little steamy eye contact and this sex position gives ample opportunity to lock gazes. Whether you're straddling or leaning back, locking eyes adds intimacy, confidence, and the perfect giddy-up energy.

Mind your comfort levels

Not every horse is built the same, and the same goes for your partner. Adjust positioning, pace, or angle to find what feels best for both of you. If something feels off, communicate—every great rider knows when to readjust the saddle. If you feel penetration when you’re on top is too painful or too deep, make sure you communicate this so you can readjust your position and pull back. You might even want to add another pardner into the mix to add in some clitoral stimulation (P.S. Cindy is a great addition).

Have a laugh

Not every ride is going to be rodeo perfection, and that's half the fun! If you wobble, if your hat flies off, if you get tangled in the sheets—just laugh it off and keep going. Playfulness keeps things sexy.

Whether you're trotting along sweet and slow or galloping towards the finish line, the key to nailing the cowgirl sex position is to enjoy the ride. Happy trails and ride safe! 

Want more? 

• To celebrate Valentine’s Day, we’re offering 30% off all riding essentials when using the code HOWDY at checkout. Don’t forget your condoms! 

• Don’t have a riding partner? No worries, check out our top solo positions to get you there. 

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